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Saturday, 2 April 2011

Yvonne Ridley - Former taliban captive, convert to Islam

How I came to love the veil

I used to look at veiled women as quiet, oppressed creatures -- until I was captured by the Taliban....

In September 2001, just 15 days after the terrorist attacks on the United States, I snuck into Afghanistan, clad in a head-to-toe blue burqa, intending to write a newspaper account of life under the repressive regime. Instead, I was discovered, arrested and detained for 10 days. I spat and swore at my captors; they called me a "bad" woman but let me go after I promised to read the Koran and study Islam. (Frankly, I'm not sure who was happier when I was freed -- they or I.)

Back home in London, I kept my word about studying Islam -- and was amazed by what I discovered. I'd been expecting Koran chapters on how to beat your wife and oppress your daughters; instead, I found passages promoting the liberation of women. Two-and-a-half years after my capture, I converted to Islam, provoking a mixture of astonishment, disappointment and encouragement among friends and relatives.

Now, it is with disgust and dismay that I watch here in Britain as former foreign secretary Jack Straw describes the Muslim nikab -- a face veil that reveals only the eyes -- as an unwelcome barrier to integration, with Prime Minister Tony Blair, writer Salman Rushdie and even Italian Prime Minister Romano Prodi leaping to his defense.

Having been on both sides of the veil, I can tell you that most Western male politicians and journalists who lament the oppression of women in the Islamic world have no idea what they are talking about. They go on about veils, child brides, female circumcision, honor killings and forced marriages, and they wrongly blame Islam for all this -- their arrogance surpassed only by their ignorance.

These cultural issues and customs have nothing to do with Islam. A careful reading of the Koran shows that just about everything that Western feminists fought for in the 1970s was available to Muslim women 1,400 years ago. Women in Islam are considered equal to men in spirituality, education and worth, and a woman's gift for childbirth and child-rearing is regarded as a positive attribute.

When Islam offers women so much, why are Western men so obsessed with Muslim women's attire? Even British government ministers Gordon Brown and John Reid have made disparaging remarks about the nikab -- and they hail from across the Scottish border, where men wear skirts.

When I converted to Islam and began wearing a headscarf, the repercussions were enormous. All I did was cover my head and hair -- but I instantly became a second-class citizen. I knew I'd hear from the odd Islamophobe, but I didn't expect so much open hostility from strangers. Cabs passed me by at night, their "for hire" lights glowing. One cabbie, after dropping off a white passenger right in front of me, glared at me when I rapped on his window, then drove off. Another said, "Don't leave a bomb in the back seat" and asked, "Where's bin Laden hiding?"

Yes, it is a religious obligation for Muslim women to dress modestly, but the majority of Muslim women I know like wearing the hijab, which leaves the face uncovered, though a few prefer the nikab. It is a personal statement: My dress tells you that I am a Muslim and that I expect to be treated respectfully, much as a Wall Street banker would say that a business suit defines him as an executive to be taken seriously. And, especially among converts to the faith like me, the attention of men who confront women with inappropriate, leering behavior is not tolerable.

I was a Western feminist for many years, but I've discovered that Muslim feminists are more radical than their secular counterparts. We hate those ghastly beauty pageants, and tried to stop laughing in 2003 when judges of the Miss Earth competition hailed the emergence of a bikini-clad Miss Afghanistan, Vida Samadzai, as a giant leap for women's liberation. They even gave Samadzai a special award for "representing the victory of women's rights."

Some young Muslim feminists consider the hijab and the nikab political symbols, too, a way of rejecting Western excesses such as binge drinking, casual sex and drug use. What is more liberating: being judged on the length of your skirt and the size of your surgically enhanced breasts, or being judged on your character and intelligence? In Islam, superiority is achieved through piety -- not beauty, wealth, power, position or sex.


Read more at http://www.yvonneridley.org/


  1. You shouldn't post 'confessions' like these. I've lived in a country where most of my ppl willingly converted in 16th century because they were military conquered and couldn't survive with highh taxes for non-muslims. We're also traditional ppl who don't show skin, but we aren't required to hide our hair,ears or face, neither is our body shape 'inpure' or 'insulting' to man. So, there's no difference between those muslim girls and me except the shawl they wear. And no matter how you style it, it doesn't explain why you're the only one wearing it on the street. saying 'it's religion' or 'rebelling against sexism' is like me saying I don't wear hotpants because it makes look like a whore but in fact I don't wear them cause I have to much cellulite and purple veins on my thighs and shins.

    1. Clearly you have never studied Islam or the reasons for hijab. Just because if you could you would dress in hotpants doesn't mean we all think the same. It's my blog and I can post what I like. If it offends you then you know how to exit. This woman wasn't forced to convert and she is now back in the UK (a free country, where she converted) still a Muslim and very proud. The reason I wear hijab is because it's a commandment from God. I'm not the only person on the street wearing it there are millions of women in the city of London going to school and work wearing it.

      You can dress however you want but don't tell me how I should dress. At the end of the day we will all answer for our own actions. How Muslim women dress shouldn't bother you so much. If it does (clearly it does) maybe you need to take a long hard look inside yourself and try to find out why it concerns you so much.

    2. Oh and before commenting on a post you might actually want to read it first

  2. Dear Yvonne,
    just read ur article and its very inspiring, thankyou for sharing your story and I wish u all the best!